Narcissism victims are individuals who have some type of a relationship with a narcissist. Common characteristics of narcissism victims can vary considerably according to the type of relationship the victim had with a narcissist. Very often, however, narcissism victims are under significant amounts of stress and may demonstrate various symptoms consistent with those who are coping with long-term stress. In situations where a victim is being abused by the narcissist, the victim may demonstrate classic symptoms of an abused person, such as fearfulness and indecisiveness. Those who manage to sever their relationship with a narcissist may demonstrate symptoms of depression or post-traumatic stress.
People who have to interact with narcissists on a regular basis may find that these interactions can prove to be quite stressful because the narcissist typically will not acknowledge that the victim has wants or needs or even legitimate thoughts of his or her own. Even in professional relationships where the victim does not have to live with a narcissist or carry on a personal relationship outside the office, the victim may find that interacting with someone who does not demonstrate mutual respect is extremely stressful. The victim in a professional setting may also find that his or her own work performance declines, as a narcissist continually undermines his or her confidence or work effort.
Those who are in family or intimate relationships with narcissists may develop other symptoms due to the closeness of their relationship. Family members, spouses, and partners may be financially exploited by a narcissist, who may believe that he or she is above doing normal work and may refuse to hold a job that makes a living wage. As the narcissist does not acknowledge that people might need or want to keep their money for themselves, he or she may have no problem with borrowing money that he or she has no intention of repaying or simply expecting the victim to support him or her. These narcissism victims may find themselves on the receiving end of verbal abuse if they confront the narcissist or refuse his or her requests. Apologies for these outbursts are seldom forthcoming from the narcissist.
After separating from a narcissist or ending a relationship, narcissism victims may continue to struggle with residual stress, depression, and feelings of guilt. In some cases, a narcissist can be a very charming friend or partner, and the victim may have developed a codependent relationship that can take some time to recover from. These victims may alternately feel anger and sadness as they adjust to life apart from a highly dysfunctional relationship.
